GRACE stands for ‘Group and Regional Ambassadors Committed to Equality’. The group was first formed in 2020 and is comprised of people from across the Compass community – including your GRACE Ambassador. Everyone in our homes has a G.R.A.C.E Ambassador, someone you can talk to about advice or if anything has happened that you would like an adult to know about.
The GRACE Group is dedicated to fighting issues of racism, inequality, and diversity. The aim of GRACE is to make sure that members of our community are not being treated unfairly because of their skin colour or background.
GRACE gives advice to Compass on how we can be more inclusive. They want to make Compass a safer, more accepting, and more understanding place for all people – no matter their race, religion, culture, disability, sexuality, background, or life experience.
Part of the work that GRACE does includes speaking out for minority groups who are facing discrimination or unfair treatment. They make sure that these people are listened to and heard and have access to equal opportunities – as is their right.
The GRACE group also provides support for anyone who might need it. This means you can talk to your GRACE Ambassador about any concerns you may have about racism, inequality, or diversity.
When we look at new areas to open our children’s homes, we are often shocked at the reaction some people have. We can understand that any construction site can cause annoyance. It can be loud, it can be bright, it can be messy; but when people reject the proposal because of the ‘types of children’ coming to live in their community, it feels personal. Because it is.
Children and young people are let down every time a children’s home being built is refused. There is a lot of planning, time and detail that goes into finding the perfect location for a children’s home to be set up.
We have many factors to consider when applying to register a home, especially finding the right place to either renovate or build in. We will write about the important factors we consider soon, but for now, here are a few FAQs we are asked at things like parish council meetings by locals.
“What if they leave the house?”
Children over ten years of age are allowed to leave their home. This is the same for children in our care. However, like any family, should a child leave the house, unless the parents or in this case carers believe that the child is safe to leave home unaccompanied, can act responsibly, can use public transport, understands road safety, and can keep in touch with the home, the parents would be unlikely to allow them to travel unaccompanied. Just like you would with your children.
However, given that children over ten years of age can leave home at will, if the carers are not confident that the child can act responsibly, the child will be accompanied by a care staff member.
“How will the children be managed at the home?”
During day light hours there would usually be three staff on site so that the children would not be left in the care of one adult. A second question arises when a child cannot be followed by a care staff member effectively. It is then the duty of care staff to find the child, generally by following to places the child is likely to go, and by driving or walking until the child is found. Other care staff can be called-upon to join.
If a child was ever to go missing, there will be a protocol in place for care staff to follow that is individual to that child, considering their vulnerabilities and level of needs. In relation to this protocol the Police would be informed after a period, but not expected to bring the child home.
Should the police find the child (they are provided with photographs to help identify the child) then care staff would go and collect the child and bring the child home.
An additional question often asked relates to night-time absconding. This is extremely rare. Doors are alarmed so that any movement out of a bedroom is signalled, and windows are restricted.
Should a child leave at night (again this is almost unknown in many of our homes homes) a staff member would follow, and the home manager, who would live locally would usually come to site or another care staff member to ensure there are always two adults onsite. Again, it is the responsibility of care staff to keep an eye on the children until they are brought home again. Fears that children will roam around unsupervised are unfounded.
“Are the children dangerous?”
Perhaps we can start with the word children. They are not ‘feral’, ‘wild’, or ‘intent on doing harm’. They are not evil or bad. They are children who have been denied the chances freely open to other children. While there may be children who present a danger to society, they would not be placed in this type of home. It would not be appropriate, and Compass does not provide services for such children. We are more concerned that the children in our care may harm themselves.
It’s so important to remember at the other end of each planning permission request, and every construction site that is put up, that there are children waiting for a safe space to call their home.
If you would like to join the team or want to find out more about working in a residential children’s home, take a look at our jobs page here. We’d be happy to answer any questions you may have.
I joined Compass in September 2018 as a Deputy Manager. I worked as a Deputy Manager for a period of 14 months before becoming a Registered Manager at one of our services in December 2019.
In June 2021 I was given the opportunity to become an Operational Development Manager and took on projects including overseeing our Residential Homes specific intranet, the online computer system development project and oversaw developments in our specialist therapeutic services as well as training and development for our programme psychologists. In January 2022 I was then given an amazing opportunity to become a Regional Operations Manager and I am now the ROM for services across the Midlands and Southwest.
As someone who grew up in the care sector and personally going to a residential home myself for a number of years, this is a sector I’m extremely passionate about and wanting the best outcomes for the young people that are in my care.
I believe Compass are a company with the right values and morals and are extremely child focused. Compass offers high quality and outstanding care to all of our young people in our services and when writing this our homes are currently achieving good or outstanding in 97% of our children’s homes.
If you want to join a company who are child focused, passionate about high quality of care for children, and a company who will support your professional development; then in my opinion look no further than Compass Children’s Homes.
Healthy social relationships are critical while growing up. It’s important that you feel able to talk to and relate to people as you grow up, this allows you to share experiences, develop your confidence and know that you are not alone.
Respect is an important part of healthy relationships, and everyone has the right to be respected. A respectful relationship is characterised by the following:
Allowing everyone to make their own choices and form their own views
Listening and respecting each other’s points of view – even if they are different to your own
Respecting everyone’s right to be safe, valued and cared for
Allow each other to disagree at times and say what they think or feel without being put down or hurt in anyway
Allowing each other to speak and make sure we are listening
Everyone can make mistakes and still be accepted and respected
Did you know if you experience disrespectful behaviours such as bullying from your peers, the effects can be serious? Including the following:
Poor sleep habits
Nausea or headaches
Depression or anxiety
Low self-confidence or esteem
Change in eating habits (under or overeating)
Lack of trust in friends
Remember you can disagree with each other without being aggressive. It is healthy and very normal to have different ideas and opinions, you can remain friends and agree to disagree.
Abusive friends may attempt to control aspects of your life. Dictating what clothes you wear, telling you what you think and what to say, and who you can be friends with. They may try and separate you from other people, so you become isolated and dependent on them. This is not a good or healthy relationship, and you should avoid anyone that tries to control you in this way.
Healthy relationships are built on trust and openness. Good relationships help young people to get through tough times and enable them to feel confident, competent, and creative.
Any form of violence in a relationship or friendship is unacceptable and should never be allowed. If anyone is violent or threatening towards you, tell a trusted adult immediately.
Following are some examples of ways that can help you create healthy relationships with your peers.
Understanding and empathy – This is the ability to feel for others, how would you feel if you were them in this situation? Try to put yourself in their shoes and understand others point of view.
Good listening – This is the ability to listen without interrupting. Try to listen to others’ ideas or problems.
Anger management – Think first before speaking and try to stay calm. Try counting up to ten or take deep breaths. Taking responsibility for managing your own anger will help you to avoid impulsive acts that are potentially destructive to yourself or others.
Resolving Conflict – Disagreements are very normal in all relationships, however there are ways to respond to, minimise and resolve conflict. It is helpful to try to understand and consider the other person’s point of view. Winning an argument is not good if it makes the other person feel hurt or embarrassed. A win-win situation, where give and take on both sides is involved, this is always preferred.
Honesty – Be honest with yourself and true to your own feelings. Allow your friends and peers to be honest with you without fear that you will react angrily.
We are incredibly proud to say that our homes are rated a huge 92% good and outstanding across the country. 🎉 This is an amazing testament to our incredible teams who work so hard everyday to ensure our children and young people have the best possible childhood.
It’s always a busy time when we get the Ofsted children’s homes reports call. Our latest great results from Ofsted inspections takes us to an overall 14% better than other providers nationally, and we are 21% outstanding which is 6% better than the national. Basically, this means that what we’re doing is truly making a positive difference to all our children and young people’s lives.
If you aren’t familiar with Ofsted, it is the Office for Standards in Education, Children’s Services and Skills. They inspect services providing education and skills for learners of all ages. They also inspect and regulate services that care for children and young people, like our homes. We take Ofsted’s suggestions and reports extremely seriously, so we are thrilled to be able to say that we are achieving such positive results.
We are proud of the amazing work our teams do everyday, and it’s sometimes only when an independent body like Ofsted come in and get us to reflect on everything we’ve been up to. It’s safe to say that our staff in our homes and wider are doing an amazing job, and largely our children are happy, healthy and safe.
No one can ever prepare you for the loss of a child and it’s not something that is easy to talk about. No doubt we will all know someone who has unfortunately either been directly, or indirectly affected by this tragedy. That’s why one of our Compass family, our very own Daniel Bebbington is putting himself forward to do “Challenge 13” with SANDS. A charity whose mission it is to make sure no one has to go through this unsupported.
The challenge is to do something 13 times within a year. So, Daniel has challenged himself to climb Snowdon 13 times in 1 year to raise money for the cause. But to really push himself he has committed to carrying the weight of 13 babies up Snowden each time to represent the journey through life they missed out on. He is going to take some rocks up the mountain and place them at the top, honouring their memory.
If you could donate even just £1 to show your support, it would not only mean the world to him and his family, but to another family, who through your contributions and the charity’s efforts will be supported through a difficult time.
We are offering our support to our staff, and friends and family, that if they have been affected by this and would like to have a decorated stone taken up and a photo taken at the top, please reach out and let us know and we can arrange the child’s memory to be carried on the journey.
Compass Children’s Homes are part of our wider Compass Community network. We provide safe, stable homes for children that need extra support, whether that be due to challenging behaviours, complex trauma, learning difficulties, or sometimes all of the above.
In 2021 the Compass Community released our ‘ESG’ report. This is our report that takes into detail our Environment, Social and Governance within the entire organisation.
We are proud to be able to share our report with you, as this is what sets us apart from many other child service providers. We champion positive change, working toward ambitious goals, and holding ourselves accountable for the decisions and actions we take.
We love to embed our values in everything we do, and promoting a more eco-friendly way to live our lives is a great way to set a good example for the young people we look after.
For example, the month of January over the last few years has really been solidified as ‘Veganuary.’ This is a month where people up for the challenging of taking on a lifestyle change from the 1st to the 31st of January change their diet to a plant-based one. This includes no animal products at all, like meat, dairy or eggs.
Many of our children’s homes partake in what we call ‘meat free Mondays’ on our menus. This helps us to reduce our carbon footprint as individuals but also not making any drastic changes to our diet or living circumstances!
Charlie who is a Residential Support Worker in one of our homes, took it upon himself to give the children a taster of ‘Veganuary’ just for the weekend!
He said that “this weekend just gone we have all celebrated Veganuary. I have made fun displays and gift bags for the children and also put together a vegan taster night for dinner which all the young people tried and actually enjoyed some of what was on offer! We all had some great conversations about diet and different reason for people choosing to be vegan or vegetarian.”
It was really nice to see them trying something new despite their initial reservations!
We’d like to give a huge shout out to Charlie for putting such a fun weekend together! We look forward to taking part in many more weekends like this to come!
If you’re interested in being a role model that change’s the lives of children and young people just like Charlie, take a look at our jobs page. We’ll be happy to answer any questions you might have.
“So my name is Garfield and I’m currently the Deputy Manager at in one of our children’s homes and am the Lead Residential Ambassador for GRACE.
I’ve been with Compass Children’s Homes since June 2019, joining initially as a Sessional Support Worker and becoming Deputy Manager this year. I have a long history of working within Residential care (18 years) along with working in Education between 2003 and 2019.
I’ve always been an advocate for fairness and equity and due to that I have often been a lone voice in questioning why people are treated differently and less fairly than others.
I hope everyone can appreciate the need for GRACE within Compass, but if you do have any questions please feel free to ask, as I would rather answer a question you may have, rather than for someone to feel that this doesn’t affect or relate to them. As we say, GRACE is NOT just about Race, it’s about Equality – ensuring that every individual has an equal opportunity to make the most of their lives or talent, be that gender, age, sexual preference, religion or disability”.
One of our aims is for the wider service to understand the changes Compass need to make to respond to the impact of inequality in our society. We strive to gain a clear picture of what is happening within Compass regarding race and equality in general.
We’re aware that creating a group like this takes time, and a lot of commitment from everyone involved. The group meet monthly, and there are ongoing changes being made behind the scenes in each of our services all the time.
Compass Community are excited to see how our G.R.A.C.E group will shape equality and diversity in our organisation, working towards shaping a fairer future for all.
This November we as Compass Community had the honour of being the main sponsor of the MOVE Charity ball. MOVE Against Cancer do fantastic work with people living with and beyond cancer.
Being diagnosed with cancer means people face an extremely tough journey. There is so much thrown at you both physically and mentally during treatment and it doesn’t just stop there.
Who are MOVE?
MOVE provide practical and online support to people living with and beyond cancer. We focus our services on children and young people living with and beyond cancer and a wider age range through our new 5k Your Way, Move Against Cancer initiative linked to parkrun.
A cancer diagnosis can be life changing, MOVE is there to support those diagnosed every step of the way through the power of movement, physical activity, and exercise.
Being diagnosed with cancer means people face an extremely tough journey. There is so much thrown at you both physically and mentally during treatment and it doesn’t just stop there.
According to MOVE’s website, the current evidence base for cancer survivorship strongly encourages participation in physical activity, with the National Cancer Survivorship Initiative stating that there is ‘persuasive evidence that a healthy lifestyle during and after cancer is associated with improved physical and psychological well-being’.
MOVE provides practical support through their online support programme for children and young people. Their 5k Your Way, Move Against Cancer groups are available for all ages and abilities.
‘I ran the whole of Vicky Park, Leicester 5k Your Way after my first chemo. I got to give my oncologist and chemo nurse a big hug and say thank you for their help so far. #MoreToThePatientThanCancer’
The MOVE Charity Ball 2021
The charity ran a fundraising ball in November, celebrating the amazing work they do along with raising awareness to all they do. MOVE managed to raise an incredible £25,000 (and counting!) for the charity.
They said “we are blown away by all the incredible support and love in the room last night. 200 wonderful people making last night such a huge success”.
Some of our Compass team were lucky enough to be invited along, and our board of operations had a wonderful evening fundraising for the charity. It was brilliant to be able to scrub up and do our bit!
“MOVE charity itself and what we do wouldn’t be possible without the support and generosity of our friends, family, supporters, and community. It was just amazing to bring everyone together last night for the ball for one incredible evening”.
The night involved: • Live music from Adam Sheldon • Lots of fundraising • Lewis Moses our epic host • Reverse bingo • The incredibly inspiring Sophie sharing her moving story • Silent and live auctions • The man, the legend, Steve Cram live on stage • Red bull champion break-dancers • And the fantastic band The Jamlocks for one hell of a party to finish
MOVE would like to say a huge thank you to everyone who helped to make last night possible and a huge success.
We are so lucky to be surrounded by so many amazing and wonderful people. Thank you”
Compass were so proud to be a part of the fundraiser, and to be able to support such an incredible cause. If you would like to donate to MOVE, you can do so here.